The Importance of Uncertainty Tolerance

Spiritual maturity is measured in part by a high level of uncertainty tolerance. I know we sometimes think that the more mature follower of Jesus is the one who has the unshakeable certainty about God. Unshakeable faith in God (because we know his loving character) is good. Unshakeable certainty about God (because we have him all figured out) is not.

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Three bad and three good responses to suffering

These three Good Friday responses are crucial if we want to experience the Easter Sunday resurrection of life and hope. In fact, we may find that if we follow this path, we can experience life and hope while we're still in the valley, because even in the valley of suffering, God prepares a table for us to experience his goodness. If you flee that valley, you will miss that table.

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When Joy Becomes Pain

Have you ever had something you love become something you dread? Sometimes, joys which at one time fed and energized us (ministry, spiritual disciplines, relationships, etc) can become burdens that threaten to kill us.

When this happens, what should we do?

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Trusting God for Dummies

Many of us, myself included, struggle with trusting ourselves to hear God correctly. "Will I hear him right?" "What if I miss his leading?" and so on.

However, let me challenge you with this thought: perhaps the root of not trusting ourselves to hear God is actually another way of not trusting God.

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Classical or jazz praying?

When the disciples asked Jesus to teach them to pray, he didn't reply, "Just pray as you feel led." He said, "Pray like this..." and then gave them the Lord's Prayer (Matthew 6). He gave them words and a format.

There are times I am tongue-tied in prayer, when I cannot articulate the thought in my mind or the groaning in my heart. When I feel like this, sometimes I pray in tongues, and sometimes I read the prayers of the saints.

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Have you skipped over your village?

The rise of Facebook and other social media means many of us are overloaded with acquaintances. We follow along and try to stay in touch with hundreds or thousands of people, and are affected by the events of their lives. Because we are overloaded and relationally drained, we may have many, many shallow friendships with acquaintances, but very few deep, meaningful relationships.

The result is crisis.

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Warning: Deconstruction Ahead (Part 3)

I have never met a mature and gracious follower of Jesus that at some point in their journey did not deconstruct at least a little bit in some way. It may have been a major deconstruction (their entire faith construct) or a minor one (changing the way they think about one certain issue or belief), but they came to the point of realizing that they did not know all the right answers and we’re open to unlearning and changing.

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Warning: Deconstruction Ahead (Part 2)

We say things like, “Go ahead and question / struggle with church beliefs / deconstruct, as long as you end up back where you started.” We have a hard time allowing those questioning followers to land somewhere else on the faith continuum.

So the first thing that we as followers of Jesus need to understand in order to become the kind of church community for healthy deconstruction and reconstruction is the wideness of Christian faith.

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Warning: Deconstruction Ahead (Part 1)

Have you heard of the term "deconstruction"? It has nothing to do with buildings or renovations, nor is it a synonym of "demolition." Rather, deconstruction is a term that refers to the breaking down of a philosophy, theology, or thought construct. The reason it's an important word to know is because it's happening all around us in the church, especially among Millennials and Gen Z.

It may even be happening to you.

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(re)Building Our Relationship with God

Two years into this pandemic, perhaps the time has come to turn our focus from the way life has faded away to rebuilding our lives, starting with our life with God. To do this we have to strip away all the pretty decorations we show others, look at our foundation with brutal honesty, and begin the long, hard work of rebuilding our relationship with God. What’s the first step?

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Fear vs Love in a Pandemic

When it comes to issue of vaccines (or any other pandemic decision) the answer is not about what we fear more, or how we feel about being told what to do, or even whether we trust the science / government that has brought about current restrictions. Rather, the question is, "How can I best love God and best love the people around me as I go through this pandemic?"

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